Thanks Brad, you pretty much called the way that worked out in it's entirety. I ended up finding a different axle than the original one on ebay. I found one on CL that was driving distance to me (Chico, CA) and it came with four toyota 6 lug wheels, all for $270, and I didn't have to pay the $200 of freight like the one in LA on Ebay. I think I got a pretty great deal on the part, but the labor was a pretty heavy expense. They did have to fabricate all the parts you mentioned, and it needed new wheel cylinders, brake shoes, and U-bolts.
Now my new concerns are that my speedometer is off, because the ratios changed on my differential, and I hope that the gearing changed for the better (easier to go up hills, more torque). I would think that the 1 ton would have a ratio that is more geared towards pulling heavier loads, but I am not sure yet...I guess I need to go try driving it up a hill. haha.